Work With Justin | Certified Transformative Divorce Coach

Turn your divorce into your defining moment of growth with the You 2.0 transformation system

“Most professionals going through divorce want to be successful and protect what matters most. But when they approach it like everyone else does, reactive and emotional while focused on short-term wins, they end up with outcomes they’re not satisfied with: bitter co-parenting relationships, financial drain, and a future that feels more like survival than success. I learned this the hard way, but discovered a better path that turns divorce into the catalyst for your greatest transformation. Work with me to invest in your divorce by approaching it like you approach your most important business challenges: with logic, strategy, and a plan that actually works. Conquer your divorce with the You 2.0 Transformation System.”

Why Work With a Transformative Divorce Coach?

The Problem With Traditional Approaches

Most divorce support focuses on just getting through it. Survival mode. Damage control. But what if your divorce could be the catalyst for becoming the best version of yourself?

While going through divorce, you may forget that the decisions you make today can be hard to change and have a profound effect on your future. A transformative divorce coach helps you look at divorce through different timelines focusing on what you need to do now while seeing the long-term impact of your choices on your future.

Instead of just making decisions that will lead you to the life you want to live after divorce, most people get caught in reactive decision-making. This isn’t just about getting through divorce and dealing with the consequences later—this is about complete transformation to You 2.0.

Traditional divorce strategies help you cope. Transformative divorce coaching helps you grow. Our You 2.0 transformation system helps you lead to the life you want after divorce.

What Makes Transformative Divorce Coaching Different?

1. Complete Life Transformation (Not Just Divorce Survival)

Traditional: “How do I get through this?”

Transformative: “How do I use this to become who I’m meant to be?” “What can I do to come out of this with a results I can live with, not a result I must tolerate and suffer”

2. Structured System (Not Just Emotional Support)

• The You 2.0 Framework: Reclaim → Reboot → Becoming You 2.0

• Proven methodology from my book “You 2.0: Divorce; A Better Way Forward”

• Measurable progress through each transformation stage

3. Business-Minded Approach (Perfect for High-Achievers)

• Strategic thinking and personalized coaching applied to personal transformation

• MBA-level planning meets emotional intelligence and growth

• Systems and processes that actually work

The You 2.0 Transformation Framework

Our proven three-stage system helps you transform divorce from crisis to catalyst for your greatest growth.

RECLAIM

Reclaim your identity, emotional stability, and clarity from the chaos of divorce. Establish healthy boundaries and reconnect with your authentic self and core values.

Testimonial: “I went from crying every day to feeling excited about my future. Justin helped me see this wasn’t an ending, it was my beginning.” – Deborah J., Marketing Director

REBOOT

Reboot your entire life foundation by rebuilding systems for co-parenting, finances, and daily routines. Create the solid structure needed for your new reality.

Testimonial: “The co-parenting scripts Justin taught me eliminated 90% of our conflicts. My kids are thriving, and I’m no longer dreading every interaction.” – David R., Executive”

BECOMING YOU 2.0

Complete your transformation journey by integrating all your growth and becoming the best, most authentic version of yourself thriving in your post-divorce life.

Testimonial: “I’m not just back to who I was. I’m better. Stronger. Happier. More authentic. This divorce became the best thing that ever happened to me.” – Lara M., Attorney

Imagine Your Transformed Life

Imagine waking up each morning feeling:

  • Excited about your day instead of dreading it
  • Confident in your decisions instead of second-guessing everything
  • Peaceful about your co-parenting instead of walking on eggshells
  • Financially secure instead of worried about money
  • Authentically yourself instead of playing a role

Imagine your children seeing you:

  • Happy and fulfilled instead of stressed and depleted
  • Modeling healthy relationships instead of tolerating dysfunction
  • Living your values instead of compromising your truth
  • Growing stronger instead of just surviving

This isn’t wishful thinking. This is what transformation looks like.

What Defines an Efficient Divorce?

An efficient divorce is one where you save time, save money, and protect what matters most: your peace of mind and your children. With the You 2.0 Transformation System, you move through divorce with a clear plan, steadier emotions, and stronger decisions, so you come out the other side with an outcome you can live with, and be proud of, not one you simply endure.

Save Time

The You 2.0 roadmap gives you clear steps and priorities, so you spend less time stuck in confusion, conflict, or court and more time moving forward.

Save Money

Make calmer, more informed choices, you avoid unnecessary legal feess and emotional spending, keeping more of your resources for rebuilding your life.

Protect What Matters

Create a calmer path through divorce. One that shields your children from conflict, and supports your peace of mind.

An efficient divorce isn’t just a smoother process, it creates the space you need to heal, rebuild, and step into You 2.0 with confidence. Our approach creates optimal conditions for transformation. You can’t focus on becoming You 2.0 if you’re stuck in legal chaos, financial drain, or emotional overwhelm.

Who This Is For

Perfect for High-Achieving Professionals Who:

  • Value structure and systems
  • Want transformation, not just survival
  • Are committed to doing the work (this isn’t passive coaching)
  • Appreciate a business-minded approach to personal change
  • Are ready to invest in their future (emotionally and financially)

You Might Be:

  • Contemplating divorce and want to do it right from the start
  • In the middle of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by decisions
  • Post-divorce but stuck and not moving forward
  • Co-parenting and struggling with constant conflict
  • Financially successful but emotionally depleted
  • Ready for a complete life reboot, not just getting by

This Isn’t Right If You:

  • Want someone to just listen and sympathize
  • Aren’t ready to take responsibility for your transformation
  • Expect change without putting in consistent effort
  • Are looking for the cheapest option available

Why Work With Justin?

From Business Strategy to Life Transformation

For over a decade, I’ve built my career as a Founder & Managing Partner of Panoptic Service LLC, a boutique consulting practice designing operational growth strategies for major companies including Amazon Web Services, Whirlpool, The Home Depot, and Alternative Apparel. I understand what it takes to execute essential steps for growth in people, processes, and profitability.

But my expertise extends beyond corporate consulting. As CEO/COO/CFO of The Berman Center, I co-developed a best-in-class clinical treatment center from the ground up, catapulting it from startup to 50 employees, 600+ clients, and double-digit growth. I’ve seen firsthand how strategic planning meets human transformation.

Like many high-achievers, I thought I could apply business logic to my personal life. When my marriage ended, I approached it like a corporate challenge to be solved. The result was costly, emotionally devastating, and left everyone wounded, especially my children.

That experience became my greatest teacher and led me to co-found the Blue Dove Foundation, addressing mental health challenges in communities nationwide. I realized there was a fundamentally different approach to divorce that could transform it from a destructive battle into a constructive rebuilding process.

Today, I combine my strategic business experience with certified divorce coaching to help clients build successful post-divorce lives. My MBA from Emory University, combined with my experience leading teams and driving transformation in healthcare and corporate settings, gives me a unique perspective on both strategic planning and emotional intelligence.

Proof My Method Works:

  • Collaborative co-parenting relationship with my ex-wife built on mutual respect and shared goals
  • Complete personal transformation from broken and bitter to engaged and thriving
  • Five Ironman triathlon completions proving that transformation is possible at any stage of life
  • The Conscious Divorce Podcast reaching thousands seeking a better approach to divorce
  • Author of “You 2.0: Divorce – A Better Way Forward” sharing the systematic approach that works
  • Hundreds of successful client transformations using the You 2.0 system
  • A thriving new relationship and engagement built on authentic self-knowledge and growth

My mission is clear: help you avoid the costly mistakes I made and instead use your divorce as the catalyst for becoming the best version of yourself. This isn’t about surviving divorce. It’s about using strategic transformation principles to thrive because of it.

Frequently Asked Questions

Still feeling unsure? Most clients ask these questions before starting or booking their strategy call.

“How is this different from therapy?”

We don’t replace therapists, our services complement each other beautifully. Therapy focuses on healing emotional wounds and processing the past, while transformative coaching focuses on building your future and implementing practical strategies.

Our therapist partners have noticed that clients who use both services together see accelerated progress. Therapy helps you understand why you feel stuck, while our You 2.0 system gives you the roadmap and tools to get unstuck. Many clients work with both simultaneously for optimal results.

“Do I still need my divorce attorney?”

Absolutely. Our work enhances your legal representation, it doesn’t replace it. Our divorce attorney partners have consistently observed that clients using the You 2.0 transformation system find greater success with logistical divorce problems outside of the legal process.

When you’re emotionally regulated, strategically thinking, and systematically approaching decisions, you become a better client for your attorney. You come to meetings prepared, make decisions efficiently, and avoid the emotional reactivity that can drag out legal processes and increase costs.

“What’s it like working with Justin as a man/woman?”

For Men: Many men appreciate having someone who understands the unique challenges they face in divorce—from navigating a system that can feel stacked against fathers to processing emotions in a way that feels authentic rather than forced. Justin’s corporate background and direct communication style resonates with high-achieving men who want strategic guidance without feeling like they’re in therapy.

For Women: Female clients often find Justin’s perspective refreshing—he brings insights they might not get from female coaches, especially around co-parenting dynamics and understanding their ex-partner’s mindset. His structured, business-like approach appeals to professional women who want transformation with clear milestones and measurable progress.

“What if my spouse won’t participate?”

Individual transformation always comes first. When you change how you show up, everything else changes too. Many clients see dramatic improvements in their relationships simply by implementing what they learn, regardless of their spouse’s participation.

“Is this only for people getting divorced?”

The You 2.0 system works whether you’re contemplating, actively divorcing, or rebuilding post-divorce. The principles apply to any major life transition where you’re ready to upgrade your identity and life structure.

“What if I’m not ready for the full program?”

Start with the Strategy Session to get clarity. This single session often provides the breakthrough perspective you need. If we’re a good fit for more intensive work, we’ll discuss your options then.

“How do I know if this will work for me?”

Transformation requires three things: willingness to be honest about what isn’t working, commitment to doing new things consistently, and patience with the process. If you have those, the You 2.0 system will work.